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The only thing you need to hook up in a bar

17 May 2018

There are loads of ways to find a hook up these days. It used to be the only way was in person. Now you have all sorts of methods. The internet has exploded, and meeting people online has become a big way of doing it. There are specialist hook up sites that specialise in it. There are phone apps that tap into all your Facebook information in order to create your profile for you, and will use...

The best films to watch to hook up

19 April 2018

It is generally traditional that when you are meeting for an evening as part of a hook up, you disguise this by saying you are meeting up to do something else. Examples include meeting for dinner, a theatre show, a concert. Personally, I have never understood this, I think that there is something sexy about saying “hey honey, want to hookup?” However, the tradition stands, and who am I to...

Great and worst first date tips for a hook up

4 March 2018

When you are first hooking up with someone, there is a chance that you met them in person. You bumped into them in a bar, or at a party. You liked them so you chatted them up, and maybe even kissed them or hooked up with them that very same night. Whether you did or not, in person meetings like this mean that a follow up “date” is very easy. For other hookups, you may have met them online....

Snowboarding Sex (ski sex counts!)

20 February 2018

Sometimes in life, we just need a break. This is normal and we all know this, it is why we take regular holidays, and we “go away” for a time. Here in the UK we generally go to Europe for our holidays, and getting laid and having sex is an important part of a good holiday. There are many places that we can go that increase our chances of getting laid, and some places that are perfect to hookup...

Why angry sex can be awesome

5 January 2018

Now the title of this article is intrinsically controversial, and I would like to start by addressing why you are having an instinctively negative reaction to this article title. In our modern day society, we consider being angry to be “bad”. It is thought of as a negative emotion that we ideally want to do away with. It is a fo pa to be angry, it is something that we strive to not be. Now...

With hookups, a change is as good as a rest

2 November 2017

As humans we are creatures of routine and patterns. For us to feel safe, secure and happy most of us need some level of routine. It makes us feel secure, makes us sure of where we are in life and what we are doing with ourselves. I wonder if this is a run off from when we were nomadic, and when a lack of food could kill us. Back then, a solid routine that resulted in food was a crucial life...

Online dating, the past, present and future of hook-ups!

19 September 2017

To look at the future of where we might end up with online hook-ups, we have to go back to look at where it all came from. Internet dating actually started pre internet! The early internet dating took the form of classified or adverts in the “lonely” section of the newspaper. People would advertise themselves in the hopes that they would find love from one of the many people calling them. This...

Being buff will get you laid once, being positive will get you a hook up again and again

8 August 2017

When it comes to hooking up, having a fuck buddy, or a no strings attached relationship, looks do matter. That is not to say that they can hold you back, no far from it. Everyone wants to have sex and get laid, and that means that no matter how you look, you will always find some who’s personal preferences and tastes mean that you are their type. People want things of all shapes, sizes and...

Turn tedious time into hook up time!

13 July 2017

There are so many times in our life when we are just killing time. When we are sitting wasting time, or waiting for something to finish, start, leave, or arrive somewhere else. We are also a time starved generation, often feeling like we don’t have enough time to do this, that, or something else. This is most certainly true of dating and sex. Finding time to message people, chat to people we...

Death increases sex drive

30 June 2017

If you in a situation where your body thinks that it is in danger of death through lack of resources, it will immediately start to conserve its energy use. It wants to survive, it is built to survive, so if there is a lack of resource it will pull back its consumption. So for example, if you have ever been on an extreme diet or fasted, you will find that your sex drive diminishes. As soon as...