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Why angry sex can be awesome

5 January 2018

Now the title of this article is intrinsically controversial, and I would like to start by addressing why you are having an instinctively negative reaction to this article title. In our modern day society, we consider being angry to be “bad”. It is thought of as a negative emotion that we ideally want to do away with. It is a fo pa to be angry, it is something that we strive to not be. Now...

With hookups, a change is as good as a rest

2 November 2017

As humans we are creatures of routine and patterns. For us to feel safe, secure and happy most of us need some level of routine. It makes us feel secure, makes us sure of where we are in life and what we are doing with ourselves. I wonder if this is a run off from when we were nomadic, and when a lack of food could kill us. Back then, a solid routine that resulted in food was a crucial life...

Online dating, the past, present and future of hook-ups!

19 September 2017

To look at the future of where we might end up with online hook-ups, we have to go back to look at where it all came from. Internet dating actually started pre internet! The early internet dating took the form of classified or adverts in the “lonely” section of the newspaper. People would advertise themselves in the hopes that they would find love from one of the many people calling them. This...

Being buff will get you laid once, being positive will get you a hook up again and again

8 August 2017

When it comes to hooking up, having a fuck buddy, or a no strings attached relationship, looks do matter. That is not to say that they can hold you back, no far from it. Everyone wants to have sex and get laid, and that means that no matter how you look, you will always find some who’s personal preferences and tastes mean that you are their type. People want things of all shapes, sizes and...

Turn tedious time into hook up time!

13 July 2017

There are so many times in our life when we are just killing time. When we are sitting wasting time, or waiting for something to finish, start, leave, or arrive somewhere else. We are also a time starved generation, often feeling like we don’t have enough time to do this, that, or something else. This is most certainly true of dating and sex. Finding time to message people, chat to people we...

Death increases sex drive

30 June 2017

If you in a situation where your body thinks that it is in danger of death through lack of resources, it will immediately start to conserve its energy use. It wants to survive, it is built to survive, so if there is a lack of resource it will pull back its consumption. So for example, if you have ever been on an extreme diet or fasted, you will find that your sex drive diminishes. As soon as...

How to hook up on a plane

29 May 2017

This is the real life story of how I got a hook up on an airplane. So I was flying to the UK via Mombai (Bombay), and when strolling down the aisle I spotted a good looking girl from the Netherlands. Planes are brilliant places to get talking to people, everyone is just killing time, and so anything you do comes across as interesting and engaging! I love speaking to people on planes. So I got...

Being Sexy - Size Matters for men - Weight vs Muscle

28 April 2017

Some change has caused you to want to make an effort to get laid more, to go out there and have sex. This change could be a number of different things. It could be that your regular squeeze is no longer around for some reason, and that means you are on the hunt for a new one. It may be that you have decided you want a second fuck buddy to juggle with the first. It may be that you are looking...