Attitude for Sex: Be Positive and Get Asked Back

Looks get the first night, attitude gets the next

The single post here splits hooking up into two stages.

The first night runs on looks. If you’re fit and healthy you’ll get more attention, and plenty of people will try someone once just to see what it’s like. The second and third nights are different. By then the abs and shoulders count for less than what you’re like to be around, and a person who turns out gloomy, dull or short of things to say gives nobody a reason to return. A positive one does the opposite, because people want sex partly to feel good, and they head back to wherever that feeling is.

The writer’s closing advice is to look after your general wellbeing as well as your body, since healthy, happy people are good to be near. The post also makes a point of saying that tastes run in every direction, so whatever you look like, somebody out there is into it. To show the right attitude before you’ve met anyone, start with the hookup profile tips.