Why women want to hook up

ed — Fri, 13 Sep 2019 20:22:11 +0000

For most men, hooking up with a girl can be done simply because they are turned on and the woman happens to be there. This is not to say they do not care or like the girl, far from it, but men tend to be quite simple when it comes to their reasons for wanting to hook up. Women, on the other hand, tend to be a little more complicated in their reasons for wanting to hook up. In this article, I would like to explore some of the reasons that women want to hook up.

In response to physical touching or stroking

Women can get turned on more and more by the right man. All bodies respond to touch and this is especially true of women. A research of women has shown that one of the reasons women hook up is in response to a “caress” in the right moment. This is not to say that any men reading this should go out and start touching women when they first meet them! However, the physical touching of a women is a great way to slowly build intimacy and encourage their desire to hook up!

They hit their “number”

Some women have a certain number of “dates” that they will go on before they will have sex. For some of those women this also acts not just as a barrier but as a trigger. Once they have hit, say, their third date or meet up, they are 99% likely to hook up! The barrier is down, the lights are green and they want to have sex with you! All you have to do is say yes!

They feel sexy

Many men think that a woman has hooked up with them because they were sexy… however research has shown that it is often the other way around! If the woman feels sexy then she is more likely to want to hook up that night. If she has dressed up, is wearing sexy underwear and nail polish of the matching colour, and is feeling vibed up and happy, she wants to hook up and you could well end up being the person that she does it with! It is about how she feels though more than what you feel like!

They feel wanted!

To build on the above further, if a woman feels that someone desires her, they are more likely to hook up with that person. Psychology tests have shown that women have expressed liking compete strangers more after they are told that the stranger liked them. So if you like a woman and you tell her, in the right way, then she is more likely to want you back.

So there are some of the reasons women want to hook up. Use them to help you, and them, do exactly that!

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Top three reasons why women want to hook up

ed — Fri, 26 Apr 2019 08:12:31 +0000

There are differences between men and women when it comes to hooking up. Men, generally like to hook up for physical reasons. They want to have sex and they are driven from the body to do so. There is nothing wrong with this, there is no reason why you should not hook up from a physical need, and women hook up for this reason as well. For women though, there are often other reasons. So here are some of the top reasons that women hook up.

For the emotional bond

One reason to hook up, especially for women, is for the emotional bond. If it is a stranger it is to feel that bond with another person, if it is with a fuck buddy or someone they are already sleeping with, then it could be to increase that bond. There is good science behind this. There I a hormone called oxytocin that is released into the body when you have sex. This activated the reward centres in the brain which strengthens the emotional bond. This is a powerful thing that should not be underestimated.

“It just happened”

Sometimes when women say this, it is true. Perhaps they had too much alcohol and things progressed without full control. Maybe there was an emotional drive from the environment and once you are on the train it is hard to get off. I think that what is more likely here is that they did not plan on hooking up, but really there is another reason behind it. You may never know the reason, they may never understand their reasons, but I think in reality it rarely “just happens” no matter what people say.

To become part of another person

There is this feeling when you have sex that you cease being two separate people and become one. Shakespeare described having sex as making “the beast with two backs.” You are one single “beast” but you have two backs because there were two of you to begin with. There is something about losing yourself in another person. That desire to be more than yourself in the joining with the escape of not being you anymore. This is something that both parties may want… but what is interesting is that couples can sync their rates of breathing and their heartbeats… but generally, it is the woman who alters her breathing and the timing of her beating heart to match the man, not the other way around.

So there are the top three reasons women want to have a hookup. We think that hooking up is a good thing, so if you are looking feel free to use our service to help you find someone who feels the same!