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Hooking up at a singles event or singles night

ed — Wed, 24 Aug 2022 23:17:23 +0000

Welcome to Hookps, the website where we help like minded individuals find others of the same mindset in order to adult date, hook up and have other relationships with no strings attached. Please note, this is not to say that things don’t sometimes progress to something more long term for indeed they do, but this is never the starting point. The idea is to go in with little to no pressure and no obligations, leaving you in a relaxed environment where you can get to know the other person with none of the nonsense that often causes stress and worry. Meet, have fun and if you liked it enough, do it again! If not, a hook up is always good because it is a hook up! Even if there isn’t a follow up it really doesn’t matter.

There are many places that one can hook up. Bars, clubs, any sort of party being a birthday party or a work event… but one place that many people don’t consider is a singles night. These can be great places to meet someone. With that in mind, here are my top tips on how to hook up at a singles night.

Understand the environment

The first thing is to understand the environment. Everyone there is single. All the usual steps that you might have previously had to take to ensure the person is available or interested go out of the window. You can just presume that they are up for it! This means that everyone is a potential hook up, remember that.

Go straight for the person you most fancy

There is a temptation to warm up into these things, perhaps by starting out with someone who is okay looking but isn’t your type. This is less scarey because there is no cost to failure, you are not that interested anyway… this would be a mistake. Go directly for the person you most fancy. Why?

- You might hook up with them, if you do you win!

- If you wait too long you are going to be fighting other people for their attention. Everyone there is single, so the competition levels are higher that a bar.

- Even if you don’t hook up with them, other people will see you talking to them and that will ooze confidence. Other potential hook ups are more likely to want to talk to you afterwards because you are already validated by hitting on the hot person in the room.

Go alone

As a final thing, go alone. It is a singles night, you are not there to hang with your mates. If you go alone, you are much more likely to have the time and focus to make it work. This is a solo mission, or a mission with another single wingman. Do not take a non-single friend!

Good luck have fun!

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Hooking up for the first time

ed — Fri, 31 Jan 2020 21:28:59 +0000

Hooking up is one of the greatest things that you can do. When we seek pleasure or enjoyment, most things in this world cost money. Whether it is an expensive holiday like a ski trip, or a more modest night out drinking, you still have to exchange money for pleasure. When it comes to having sex, hooking up costs you nothing! It is astonishing that one of life’s greatest pleasures costs you no money at all!

If you are in a time in your life when you haven’t hooked up for a while, you might be telling yourself that it is not really that great, that actually it is not all that. You would be lying to yourself. A good protection mechanism against sadness when we do not have something is to tell ourselves that we do not want it. This does solve the issue of longing and envy, but in reality, this is not the truth. So if you are not having sex right now, instead of lying to yourself I strongly advise you to go and solve the issue. Go and hook up with someone.

If you have never hooked up with someone, you might find the thought of trying to make it happen a little intimidating. To help out with that, this is my guide on what to do when hooking up for the first time.

So, if you have never hooked up with someone, you are in two possible place. Either you have had sex before but not gone out and had a casual hook up, or you have had sex before but not a causal one. If you are the former, all I can say to you is the only way to get over it is to have sex. This guide is to help people find someone to do that with, so if you want to lose your virginity, a hook up might be one way of doing so. Ultimately, my advice is the same regardless of your situation in this regard.
The main secret to hooking up is to accept that is what you would like as a result of the evening. By going out *knowing* that you are looking to hook up means that your brain will be on the look out for someone that you can hook up with. It will do most of the work for you.

The thing that will hold you back is fear. This can come for all sorts of reasons, fear of rejection if you try to hook up with someone and they say no, fear of not knowing how to handle the situation or what to say, in some cases you may even be fearful of success and what to do if they do want the hook up you are offering them! There is only one way to deal with this. Feel the fear, do it anyway! Just push through. There are techniques and things you can do to help you push through, which I will not cover in this article, but you have to just do it anyway. Once you have done it, you will give your mind a referencing point of doing it without negative repercussion, and that will reduce the fear for next time.
So go hook up, you won’t regret it.

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How to hook up like James Bond: Hook up tips for men

ed — Sun, 02 Dec 2018 11:48:08 +0000

We all want to hook up, and why shouldn’t we? Sex is one of the most natural and enjoyable things that you can do. If more people were having sex, we come one step closer to world peace! Why make war when you can have sex, right? For those men out there that are having trouble hooking up, who at this point are finding themselves going home alone rather than with a girl on your arms, the simple solution is to act more like James Bond. He would never go home alone. So here are my top tips, on how to hook up like James Bond.

Know your alcohol limits

James Bond likes a drink, but the man is never drunk. Know what your alcohol limits are, and stop drinking before you go over them. Those final shots of Tequila may seem like a good idea at the time, but you are really going to have trouble performing in bed if you are over the limit. Drinking increases the will but not the way. James Bond would have his Martini then whisk the girl away. You should do the same.

Play it cool

James Bond is as cool as a cucumber. Do the same. Steering the conversation towards the sexual is a good idea, but don’t stay there too long. Don’t try too hard and don’t seem too needy. James Bond knows that he is going to get laid, and even if he doesn’t get laid he doesn’t care. You should do the same.

Take the lead

Leading is super attractive. James Bond always leads. He decides on the venue, orders drinks for the girl, and leaves when he wants. Admittedly this is because the venue is owned by the bad guy, the drink is so that he can lace it with a sedative and he leaves in order to chase the man with the secret nuclear submarine codes… but you get the idea! Make simple choices, order at the bar, make a firm decision about where you are going to sit. None of these choices are going to really change things, however by making them you show that you are the kind of guy that can make strong choices, just like James Bond!

So if you are having trouble hooking up with someone, think about acting more like James Bond. That guy gets all the girls, and you can too!

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