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Get your hook up logistics sorted

ed — Sat, 24 Dec 2022 14:09:11 +0000

When hooking up with someone, it is really helpful to have somewhere you can bring the person back to in order to have sex. Sometimes you might hook up with someone and be able to go back to theirs… but you can not rely on it, and if the logistics are not in place, it can make the difference between a hook up that happens and one that does not! You also might find that some people are far more comfortable having a hook up with someone new at their place rather than their own for the first time. This is so that no matter what happens, they can walk away clean. You do not know where they live, so if you turn out to be a bunny boiler they are more likely to be safe. You might argue that if you were a bunny boiler, coming back to yours is a terrible idea… there is no clear answer to that, I am just reporting how some people feel!

Things you need

This is not rocket science, but once you get someone back to yours, there are certain things that you are going to need.

- Firstly, you are going to need a double bed – a single bed generally won’t cut it.

- Secondly, you are going to need it clean. I mean clean sheets, tidy and made. This is not difficult, but it can be a real turn off if you present a dirty bed to someone (appreciating that for others that would be an active turn on of course – but you would want to know that first!).

- Thirdly, you need to keep the place in reasonably clean condition overall. This is not a complete deal breaker, but it is going to be helpful.

- Fourthly, have some drinks to hand. This does not have to be a fully stocked drinks cabinet not anything super fancy. Some people still need some liquid plausible deniability on a hook up, and you need to be able to serve to them, preferably in a nice glass! They may not even drink much or any of it, but it is important to be able to pour them a drink as part of the theatre of the evening's events.

- Fifthly, have some protection on hand. Many people won’t sleep with someone else without a condom for the first time and this is a sensible choice. So get some stocked.

Once you have your logistics in place, good luck and have fun!

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With hookups, a change is as good as a rest

ed — Thu, 02 Nov 2017 22:13:46 +0000

As humans we are creatures of routine and patterns. For us to feel safe, secure and happy most of us need some level of routine. It makes us feel secure, makes us sure of where we are in life and what we are doing with ourselves. I wonder if this is a run off from when we were nomadic, and when a lack of food could kill us. Back then, a solid routine that resulted in food was a crucial life skill! Varying a working process could result in no food, and death! I wonder if a lot of the people who experimented too much simple bred themselves out by getting themselves killed. So most of us need and like some routine. And here comes the but…

Too much routine can kill the sex

That’s right. If you always have sex on a Thursday night after she gets back from spin class and you get back from a poker night, that can start to become a little too routine. If you always have sex on that Thursday in missionary position, with the same foreplay and the same sequence, this really is going to eventually become a little stale, and eventually you will find you are no longer having sex on any day of the week! So how can you find excitement in your sexual life? The answer lies in mixing it up!

Start small – change sexual position

This is the easiest thing to do. Change sexual position. If you usually go missionary, go doggy style. If you are usually on top, time for her to ride you. Changing this is quick, easy, and will wake both of you up! So pop your fuck buddy where you don’t usually have her!

Change rooms

This is an easy fix. Switch the room you are having sex in! This is a bigger change. Do it without telling her for added feeling of spontaneity.

Change partners!

This is the sure fire way to completely rejuvenate your sex life. Sleep with someone else. It changes everything all at the same time. Maximum effect – but also takes the most effort to organise.

Three’s a crowd… or is it?

Why not invite a friend along. This is the perfect way of changing partners, for both of you, whilst still having sex with each other. Only way to know if you like it, is to try it!

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