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Why hooking up feels so good

ed — Tue, 30 Jun 2020 22:57:40 +0000

Hooking up with someone is one of the most pleasurable things that you can do. It doesn’t cost money, it doesn’t require any kind of qualifications or special skills. Everything that you need to be able to do to hook up with someone is hard-wired into you as a human. No matter how rich or poor you are, you can hook up and have the time of your life!

So why is hooking up such a pleasurable thing to do? Why is it that sex and intimacy are something that we are naturally driven to seek, and when we find it, what is it about sex that makes it so good? This has been the subject of a huge number of studies and research projects both formally and privately. In this article, we are going to focus on the effects of the body, but before we look at that, I want to acknowledge the extremely important social aspect. As humans, we all seek external validation to some degree. Some of us need a lot of it, a small minority of us need very little, but we all naturally look for it, and when we find it, it brings with it a huge pleasure. Having someone hook up with you is one of the most validating things that you can do with another human. It sends a message to you form this other human that you are such a worthwhile person, this person not only wants to spend time with you, but they also want and trust you enough to want to be intimate with you. Having sex is a hugely intimate activity, and it requires trust and desire. This can raise your self-esteem and send a clear message to you about your self-worth. This is such a big part of hooking up that I had to bring it up first. Now on to the body!

When you hook up with someone your body responds to the excitement. The genitals become flushed with blood ad the sensitivity in these areas, which makes sex more pleasurable. As you move on to having sex, you can hit a plateau where everything becomes even more sensitive and your arousal intensifies. This can go up and down like a wave… I strongly encourage you all to ride this! If you ride it right, you will hit orgasm, and this is where the body goes through huge muscle contractions. From this height, you will, in your own time, relax back to how you were before you started having sex. This can be a wonderful place to be, relaxed, sated, happy!

The entire journey that you take can be intense. It draws on both your brain and body to fuel the experience, and this is why it is so good. So many things in life use either the body or the brain primarily…. But sex and hooking up uses both! Thus you have the capacity to have an experience like no other!

So that is why it is so good… now you know the theory it is time to put it into practice… go forth and hook up!

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Hooking up is the best way to start a relationship

ed — Mon, 05 Aug 2019 19:42:15 +0000

When most people think of looking for a hook up and looking for a relationship, generally they do so by thinking about things very separately. When most people are actively looking for a relationship, a lot of them actively avoid hook-ups! In most people’s minds, a hook up is not a good way to begin a relationship, and a hook up is very unlikely to lead to a relationship. If this were true, they would be wise to avoid hookups in order to spend their time and energy on prolonged dating. The same is true for those trying to avoid a relationship. People looking for a hook-up generally assume that a one night (or several nights) stand is all it is going to be. They assume that it will never lead to a relationship. I am here to tell you that both of these people are wrong. In reality, not only can a hook up move to a relationship, I am going to argue that a hook up is the best way to start a relationship.

In a relationship, most people are looking for a best friend. Someone that they can love for the long term, someone who is going to have their back in the short and long term. However, they want more than this, or we would al just get together with our best mates. They are also looking for someone with which to share a sexual passion. If you are in a monogamous relationship, this person is the only person you may sleep with for many years, perhaps for all your years! Thus, it is important that you are sexually compatible. There are people that have fallen into situations where they find themselves in long term relationships with someone who is sexually incompatible with them. They then have 2 choices: stay in a sexually frustrating relationship or walk away from all the investment into the long-term relationship. This is a hard choice. The best way to avoid it? Start with sex.

If you begin with sex, you can be sure that the sex is good. If you begin with the passion, with the desire to rip each other’s clothes off and do naughty things to each other, then start with that locked in safely for the rest of your relationship, no matter how long it lasts for. As you grow into best friends, as you begin to support each other in all the many “relationship” ways that happen over time, you will always be able to tap into the passionate sex that you started with. This will keep you both happier for the long term.

So if you are looking for a relationship, consider starting with a hook up. It works!

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Top three reasons why women want to hook up

ed — Fri, 26 Apr 2019 08:12:31 +0000

There are differences between men and women when it comes to hooking up. Men, generally like to hook up for physical reasons. They want to have sex and they are driven from the body to do so. There is nothing wrong with this, there is no reason why you should not hook up from a physical need, and women hook up for this reason as well. For women though, there are often other reasons. So here are some of the top reasons that women hook up.

For the emotional bond

One reason to hook up, especially for women, is for the emotional bond. If it is a stranger it is to feel that bond with another person, if it is with a fuck buddy or someone they are already sleeping with, then it could be to increase that bond. There is good science behind this. There I a hormone called oxytocin that is released into the body when you have sex. This activated the reward centres in the brain which strengthens the emotional bond. This is a powerful thing that should not be underestimated.

“It just happened”

Sometimes when women say this, it is true. Perhaps they had too much alcohol and things progressed without full control. Maybe there was an emotional drive from the environment and once you are on the train it is hard to get off. I think that what is more likely here is that they did not plan on hooking up, but really there is another reason behind it. You may never know the reason, they may never understand their reasons, but I think in reality it rarely “just happens” no matter what people say.

To become part of another person

There is this feeling when you have sex that you cease being two separate people and become one. Shakespeare described having sex as making “the beast with two backs.” You are one single “beast” but you have two backs because there were two of you to begin with. There is something about losing yourself in another person. That desire to be more than yourself in the joining with the escape of not being you anymore. This is something that both parties may want… but what is interesting is that couples can sync their rates of breathing and their heartbeats… but generally, it is the woman who alters her breathing and the timing of her beating heart to match the man, not the other way around.

So there are the top three reasons women want to have a hookup. We think that hooking up is a good thing, so if you are looking feel free to use our service to help you find someone who feels the same!

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