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When we hook up on our own turf, when at home, we know what we are doing. We speak the same language as the other person, we know the area, we have usual haunts were we might take the person for a drink or some food, we know where to go to meet those people in the first place or we have active subscriptions to websites that will help us to meet that person (this website being a great example of th...

There are all sorts of great reasons to hook up. You are out on holiday, and you want to add to the adventure of the holiday. You meet someone and the vibe is just there, the best thing to do is hook up there and then whilst the window of opportunity is open, for it may never come again. You are super stressed out and need a release, there is no better solution that hooking up. What most people do...

It is generally traditional that when you are meeting for an evening as part of a hook up, you disguise this by saying you are meeting up to do something else. Examples include meeting for dinner, a theatre show, a concert. Personally, I have never understood this, I think that there is something sexy about saying “hey honey, want to hookup?” However, the tradition stands, and who am I to argue wi...

Sometimes in life, we just need a break. This is normal and we all know this, it is why we take regular holidays, and we “go away” for a time. Here in the UK we generally go to Europe for our holidays, and getting laid and having sex is an important part of a good holiday. There are many places that we can go that increase our chances of getting laid, and some places that are perfect to hookup. Th...

As humans we are creatures of routine and patterns. For us to feel safe, secure and happy most of us need some level of routine. It makes us feel secure, makes us sure of where we are in life and what we are doing with ourselves. I wonder if this is a run off from when we were nomadic, and when a lack of food could kill us. Back then, a solid routine that resulted in food was a crucial life skill!...

When it comes to hooking up, having a fuck buddy, or a no strings attached relationship, looks do matter. That is not to say that they can hold you back, no far from it. Everyone wants to have sex and get laid, and that means that no matter how you look, you will always find some who’s personal preferences and tastes mean that you are their type. People want things of all shapes, sizes and colors,...

If you in a situation where your body thinks that it is in danger of death through lack of resources, it will immediately start to conserve its energy use. It wants to survive, it is built to survive, so if there is a lack of resource it will pull back its consumption. So for example, if you have ever been on an extreme diet or fasted, you will find that your sex drive diminishes. As soon as your ...

Some change has caused you to want to make an effort to get laid more, to go out there and have sex. This change could be a number of different things. It could be that your regular squeeze is no longer around for some reason, and that means you are on the hunt for a new one. It may be that you have decided you want a second fuck buddy to juggle with the first. It may be that you are looking for a...